You don’t have to do anything sexual that you’re not interested in. Moreover, you don’t have to explain why. “No” is a complete sentence.
Not interested in getting pegged? You don’t have to. Monogamous and not into the idea of another partner? Okay. Not sure about period sex? Cool.
And if your partner decides to question or mock your maturity or your masculinity or your sexuality because you say no? It’s time to re-evaluate the relationship. See if you don’t deserve better than that.
Boost
BOOST MORE!!!
My little brother’s ex gf asked to hang out, showed up tipsy, tried to flirt, kissed him out of the blue, and then insulted him before leaving. The next day, she wanted to know how he felt about what had happened and he was so wigged out by the whole experience he asked to come over to my place to talk it out.
We eventually got around to the fact that she’d done something physical to him without his consent and he had every right to be upset, but it wasn’t the first response for either of us. Initially we were trying to interpret her actions and words, but we eventually concluded none of that even mattered bc she had violated his consent and then tried to shirk responsibility by saying she’d only kissed him bc she “could tell he had wanted her to”.
That’s some gross shit. And the fact that it took us a minute to get there shows how secondary we treat men’s consent.